I think you can tell a lot about a person by which death in Harry Potter hurt them the most.
in other news, water is wet and the obamas are a perfect couple
"Another problem with the sex positive movement is the idea that questioning the ethics of a fetish is always “kink shaming”. I think that whatever two adults do consensually is fine, but I also think that it’s important to critically examine why so many people fantasize about rape or have really racist sexual fantasies. Any sex worker can tell you that people have disturbing and fucked-up fetishes, and the idea that we shouldn’t question where those come from is ridiculous."
From a Friend of the Site.
We couldn’t have said it any better.
examining the fine line between ethical discussion and outright shaming is really important as well (for this discussion and dozens of others, including slut-shaming v. owning your body, etc.)
— shoplifting is not a radikewl act